2 Samuel 10
4So Hanun took David’s servants and shaved off half the beard of each and cut off their garments in the middle, at their hips, and sent them away. 5When it was told David, he sent to meet them, for the men were greatly ashamed. And the king said, “Remain at Jericho until your beards have grown and then return.”
It is curious to me how the beards play a part in this passage. After some quick research, it becomes evident that the act of shaving off half the beard of each servant was an act of disrespect. The Jews were compelled to maintain a well-trimmed beard as prescribed by several verses in the Bible (Lev. 19:27, Lev. 21:5, Ezekiel 5:1-4, Ps. 133:2, 2 Sam. 19:24, Isa. 15:2, Jer. 41:5). I recall a conversation I had with a Muslim that had a beard. He told me that his faith believes that you do not shave off your beard because you want to mimic as much as possible of Jesus Christ and Mohammed. They both had long beards, so in turn, a faith-practicing Muslim should do the same. I can’t say as I know right from wrong on this one (let’s call it a non-essential, shall we?) but Hanun’s act was clearly one of disrespect and indignation. David instructs the servants to return to Jerusalem, grow back their beard and then return. I’m not educated enough about the Jewish culture at the time to state for certain but I believe that this was more a statement around regaining their composure, their pride and their focus. It was almost as if he wanted to say to Hanun that he could cut off their beards but he couldn’t take away their spirit or their purpose. Do I have a similar mentality? If someone hurts my pride or insults me, do I take it personally and then react inappropriately (spitefully, revengefully, etc.)? The Lord instructs us to turn the other cheek. After all, He will judge them according to their deeds. I am not to judge them. This is a great reminder to those who struggle with pride issues, like myself. Remember, the servants of David returned home only to return and defeat the Syrians.
The Ammonites realized that David was not pleased with this act. They decided to go hire the Syrians of Beth-rehob, the Syrians of Zobah, the men of Maacah and the men of Tob. When David heard of this, he didn’t go hire anyone or call for reinforcements, he went to battle them. He took his existing troops and went to attack them. Now, the Scriptures aren’t clear on this point but I have to assume that David prayerfully considered this move. His troops were being attacked from the front and the rear, yet they were able to successfully defeat the troops. This was clearly the will of the Lord. Do I rush into things or do I wait for the word of the Lord to come to me? I am horrible at this. I am very much an impulse person. If I think about things too long, I will think of all the reasons why not to do something. In effect, the Lord isn’t getting His say in my decisions — it is all about me. This is an area of my life the Lord has been working on. I still have problems with saying ‘no’ to people regarding spiritual things/commitments, but I am doing better!
Father, I thank you for your Word. I thank you for a role model like David. He was a human. He sinned, but God he cared about you and had a heart for me. Your Word gives me examples of his behaviors that allow me to learn and grow. I am so glad that You are working in my life and changing me. I want to have a heart for you. My desire is to find complete joy in You and not look anywhere else. I thank you for opening my eyes to your Word tonight around my pride and my impulsiveness. It is amazing to know that You care enough about me to bring these things to my attention in order to help shape me into the man You want me to be. I pray these things in Christ Jesus holy name. Amen.